Here are some of my favorite submissions from the past week…
Love your blog, man. I always checked a girl’s medicine cabinet, felt like that was the perfect gauge.
I know you’re the fridge master, but can you analyze this medicine cabinet for me??
They say eyes are the windows to their soul.
Well, a medicine cabinet can be the window to their sanity.
The fact is, we’re all dating detectives and we all have our methods to analyze a prospect. I’ve always felt like a fridge is the most revealing, but a medicine cabinet is a very close second.
The tricky thing can be most medicine cabinets are harder to access than a fridge. By no means are we talking Mission Impossible here, but if they have more than one bathroom, you’ll most likely need to pass the slap & tickle phase of the relationship to gain entry to their med cab.
As you’ve already done the heavy lifting here, I’m in. Check Their Fridge is about finding and analyzing clues, which reveal probable truths about a person. (For example, a logical guess would be your Canadian, as ‘cheers’ is a more popular adieu up there)
This’ll be fun, stay tuned for our first Medicine Cabinet analysis next week!
I like this guy, and there’s a mutual attraction. (And yes, his fridge ain’t shabby either ☺)
How long do you think a girl should wait to have sex?
Along with ‘Where do we come from?’, the question of how long til sex is as old as Mankind.
And there is no right and wrong answer, just what’s right and wrong for you. The fact is, I’ve seen just as many relationships succeed after shagging on the first date as I have from girls making the guy wait a month.
Do I think shagging a guy on the first date is the best strategy? No, frankly I don’t. Even if it’s the 2nd or 3rd date (which is industry standard), I’d make him wait a bit. The key for you is to have sex when you want to have sex. It’s about you, not him and if you want it, go for it.
I’ve heard way too many women talk about when to have sex like it’s for the guy and the impression they’re making. I say screw that. It’s about you and what you’re comfortable with. If he has a problem with that, he’s a dick and tell him to piss off.
I met this guy and he’s a good deal overweight. He’s hilarious and I have a good time with him, but I’m not attracted to him.
I didn’t get a pic of his fridge, but I have a photographic memory and can send you a detailed list if that helps.
Can you still analyze?
I usually require a fridge pic, but this is a topic that interests me, so send the list if that’s all you have. (And as I’m obsessed with photographic memories, any description of condition, cleanliness and organization would help)
What I can say for now is personality is the most importantly quality when dating, but you absolutely need an attraction first.
Now, I don’t know how big this dude is, and I’m curious if it’s from overeating or from a condition. But you know what I find attractive about obese dudes? Nothing.
If you’re obese from over-eating, not a health condition and it’s to the point that you’re risking your health, that’s a problem. I’m not talking looks, I’m talking health and with obesity comes heart disease, diabetes and a host of other life-threatening issues. That will impact not only his life, but also his partner’s.
I love McDonald’s. I love meatball pizza, steaks, lasagna, BBQ, beer, bourbon, Chinese food and more. But everything in moderation.
I can go on, but I’ll moderate myself for now. Shoot me that list and I’ll dive in with my analysis.
Please keep submitting your fridges, comments and dating adventures!