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Check their Fridge

A Dating Guide

Prologue: Winter 1998

We’ve all been there: on a date when we get that first invitation back to their apartment. Considering I made out with Haley in the street on our last date, one thing was certain: tonight I was going to see her topless.

Factoring that in with her preppy looks, her Princeton education and her Jewish background, I guesstimated that I had a 50% chance of sex-sex and a 40% chance of something even more personal to women than sex-sex: oral sex ... Read More

Stonehill’s Inbox

Here are some of my favorite submissions of the past week: tune in this week for the fridge breakdowns!

Stonehill

Stonehill,

I’m back in the online dating game. I’ve just been too busy with work and haven’t met anyone lately.

Here’s the fridge of Katie. We just spoke on the phone, had a good convo and I asked her to send me a pic of her fridge. She laughed her ass off when I told her about your blog and sent me the attached.

What do you think? Should I take her out???

-Ed

Ed,

Unless this girl’s fridge is a freak of nature, you’re in a place right now where you should go out with her, along with everyone you can. Dating is like a muscle and you have to exercise it. If you don’t, you’ll treat every date that comes along as a bigger deal than you should and your dates will smell that, not a good smell.

That said, the more you know about her, the better. Lets dive in and see what her fridge tells us….

Tune in Wednesday for the Fridge Analysis!


Stonehill,

I know this is not fridge related, but I had a girlfriend advise me recently to not return a guy’s texts or calls and quoted The Rules that it’s a girl’s job to keep a guy chasing them…thoughts?

-Tracey

Tracey,

When I read The Rules a zillion years ago (Warner Books, 1995), I was like WTF. Here’s a best-selling book that’s telling a whole generation of women to ‘rarely return his calls’. What does that mean? Only go out with stalkers??

If I called a girl and she didn’t return my call, maybe and I mean, maybe I’d shoot her an email or text just to make sure the message got through. If I didn’t hear back from there, I was out for sure.

Why wouldn’t I be? She made clear that she wasn’t interested. And that’s fine. I’d rather know than to waste time on the wrong person.

Dating is like Sales and the most valuable lesson I learned in Sales was this: Get to the ‘no’. Meaning if a prospect was dead, move on and don’t waste time.

Half of my friends are women and every one of them would be skeeved by a guy who kept trying to contact them after they made clear they weren’t interested by not responding.

If you’re interested, call the freakin’ dude back.

Stonehill


This week, I’ll be featured on ABC 7 in NY with reporter Kemberly Richardson (@kemrichardson7) and on The Bender with host Ben Harvey (@djbenharvey) on Sirius.

Stay tuned for exact dates and times!


Please keep submitting your fridges, comments and dating adventures!

stonehill@checktheirfridge.com

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Stonehill’s Inbox

Here are some of my favorite submissions of the past week: tune in this week for the fridge breakdowns!

Stonehill

Stonehill,

I’ve seen this gal a couple of times and we’ve ended up spending the night at her place after both dates. She emigrated from an eastern European country at a young age.

She seems really into me but I’ve decided to cool it for a while. Did I make the right choice?

-Tyler

Depends if she’s a gymnast. Stay tuned.


Ben, our first Gay Fridge Post, submitted an update….check out his vastly improved fridge on Twitter and Facebook!

  • Facebook.com/checktheirfridge
  • @checktheirfridg

Phew, a step in the right direction for Ben ☺


Stonehill,

What’s your take on how long a gal should wait before sleeping with a guy?

-Angelica

The truth about anyone who tells you there are definitive rules of when to have sex is this…They never had much sex.

When you want to shag a guy, shag away. As long as you’re doing it for you, not for him. The fact is, I’ve seen as many marriages spawn from sex on the first date as I have from a girl making a guy wait a month.

Statistically speaking, do I think it’s the best strategy to bang a guy on the first date? No. Date 2 and on is a better move (allows a little buildup). Industry standard is date 3.

Stonehill


Please keep submitting your fridges, comments and dating adventures!

stonehill@checktheirfridge.com

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Stonehill’s Inbox

Here are some of my favorite submissions of the past week: tune in this week for the fridge breakdowns!

Stonehill

Stonehill,

I have been out with with this girl a few times and finally managed to get a shot of her fridge. I was only able to get this shot, without her catching me. She is a MILF who is going through a divorce, the jury is still out on the level of her craziness so I am hoping you can shed some light on it for me. Should I be running yet? Thanks for the help, bro!

-Brad


Stonehill,

Can you set me up with one of your fridge chicks? Nice Melons (Fridge Post #2) looks hot.

-Seth

Seth, a game plan is in the works! Though I can’t promise that Robin (and her nice melons) are interested.

Stonehill


Okay, love your site. I already overanalyze everything as it is and you just gave me more to worry about. So yes, I love your site, but I hate you.

My fridge is attached, what are my dates going to think? (Though I’ll probably hate them too)

-Jackie


Stonehill,

I met this girl the other night and we did the no pants dance. Victory! What do you get from her fridge?

That she clearly has a weakness for poets. Congrats on the Victory ☺ As you don’t need my help on this one, I’ll leave you guys to it.

Stonehill


Please keep submitting your fridges, comments and victories!

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